When you are stressed and the worst seems to be coming true for you, what will you do? You can call up your friends and pour your heart out. But can you do that always? If you go and relate your sob stories everytime you are down in the dumps, even to your best friends, you will be labeled as an insufferable bore. They may avoid you like plague. You surely wouldn’t like that to happen. Would you?
The easiest way out - try daydreaming about what you want and hope to happen. But, the familiar reprimand of childhood “Don’t daydream and waste your time. Get on with your work.” is something which we all have grown up with and keeps ringing in our ears. Is daydreaming so bad and counter-productive? Is it a form of escapism? Modern psychologists are of the opinion that it is an outlet to give vent to pent-up emotions and feelings. It helps to de-stress and unwind and prepare one for the next challenge. By being positive one is more likely to make dreams come true.
But when we are really depressed it is very hard to dream about something pleasant and positive. We are so much swayed by negative emotions that we are more likely to dream of a negative outcome and repetitive negative visualizations can definitely work against us. So, it is very important to practise fantasizing and dreaming about the right things.
Wait there is more… Another hidden benefit of daydreaming. When you are lost in the maze of daydreams, in the background your brain is actually pondering over your other problems and ways of tackling them. According to this article:
Daydreaming might feel like the ultimate waste of time, but it's just the opposite. Recent research fromPic credits:fotosearch.com
suggests that during daydreaming, your brain may actually be processing important issues that aren't relevant at that immediate moment — anything from strategizing about tonight's dinner to wondering about your kid's mysterious bug bite. So forgive yourself for spacing out during that boring PTA meeting: Though you may not even be aware of it, you've got other things on your mind. Dartmouth College
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